Parenting is difficult. We all know that, but it can also be so joyful if we have the right tools and knowledge. Understanding how to enjoy parenting can completely change your life. You are able to build important relationships with your children. You can create amazing lifelong memories. And what I think is most important is that you increase your happiness, within yourself, and your children.
I know a thing or two about how you can forget to enjoy the little moments in parenting. I became a mom at the age of 18, SURPRISE, and I instantly jumped on the roller coaster of stress. However, I also learned how important it is to have fun. Go ahead and get the paint out, don’t be afraid of a snowball fight, and make a mess in the kitchen while you cook next to your son or daughter. Let’s enjoy these moments.
What is Joyful Parenting?
Joyful parenting is getting back to actually enjoying what you are doing in the moment. It is forgetting about everything else on your to-do list. Because I promise, as soon as you mark off one item, it just creates space for another. Joyful parenting is not being afraid of making a mess, getting on the floor and playing with toys, and limiting the stress in your routines.
We all know there are going to be moments where you just can’t today. THAT’S OK! We may be amazing, but we are still human. We are never going to have as much energy as a 5-year-old, or be able to talk as much as our 10-year-old, or have as much attitude as our 15-year-old (although don’t tempt me), but we can fully engage in the moments when we do have the time and energy.
How to Start Enjoying Parenting?
Identify what it is that is stopping you. For me, it was many things. The feeling that I don’t have time, the to-do list etched in my mind, the fear of what a mess it will be.
Pick one, only one, to decide to work on. Tell yourself, the next time my son wants to paint I am going to pick one area in the house designated for crafts. This will contain the mess and prevent worrying about it during our time. That is exactly what I did.
Already have time carved out in your day designated for playtime. If you pack your schedule with your to-do list no wonder you feel like you have no time to play with your daughter, because according to your schedule you’re full. Put playtime on the top of the to-do list and watch it all come together.
Tips for Success to Enjoy Parenting
Clear your mind
Get organized so less is hanging over your head
Establish routines and schedules
Let your child take the lead
Notice how this time is building your relationship and allowing your child to grow creatively
Common Questions/FAQ About Parenting
What is good parenting?
There is no perfect answer to this question. Every parent is different, every child is different, and therefore every home is different. That is what makes your family so perfect. You are the only one that can answer what it means to be a good parent to your kiddos. Are they happy? Are you trying your best? Yes? Then sounds like you are a beautiful parent.
How do you organize your life with kids?
Trial and error. Some things work, and some don’t. First, organize your home. Organize those toys to keep them easy to reach and find. Organize the craft supplies to make cleanup quicker. Start small and watch the larger things follow. Once the little things become easier, such as a quicker clean-up, you now have more time and limited stress for the next activity.
What are some fun activities to do at home?
Oh my, there are so many and they are all my favorite! If only we could be as creative as our little ones. They have the best ideas and if you listen to them then you will know what exactly gets them the most excited. It doesn’t have to be paint and slime. Have you ever heard of The Floor is Lava?
Why is a routine and schedule important?
I feel like the obvious answer is to say that it is best for the kids. Which, don’t get me wrong, it is great! It teaches them stability and limits anxiety. But what if I told you it could be for you too! Limit your stress, enjoy the day more, and momma you could get a good night’s sleep.
How do you balance work and family life?
The most straightforward solution would be to make schedules. Creating a schedule so you and the rest of the family know what to expect from each day. It is expected that dad will be working this Saturday so plan for a mommy and me date. When there is a schedule you limit your surprises and find balancing life much simpler, but never be afraid to venture off the schedule when needed.
How can I enjoy time with my kids?
Oh man, I have a whole blog about this one. There are so many factors, organization, routines, fun activities, limiting stress, having confidence in your parenting, and I could go on. However, if I had to sum it up I would say be in the moment. Regardless of what you are doing, you can make great memories doing anything, anywhere.
The Last Thing You Need to Know About Joyful Parenting
It is not always easy to enjoy every aspect of parenting, but there are ways to improve. Look up some new activities or ask your friends, get a bit more organized, shift around your schedule. Lastly, remember the most important thing, you are doing an amazing job!
Between the to-do task, the tantrums, work, and school, it is easy to forget to enjoy the little moments. To get closer to your goal of joyful parenting, here are 15 quotes reminding you to stop and enjoy the only thing we are guaranteed, today. Download the FREE 15 Unforgettable Quotes Reminding You to Enjoy Every Day.
Kommentare